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Well, to tell the truth, it's neither a sword day nor a red day, but it is a grand day, at least for my son, who heads off to The College of New Jersey in a couple of hours (escorted by his lovely mother, who's somehow managed to cram all manner of room-cleaning utensils and equipment into the already bulging back of our Ford Explorer).

It's nearly eighteen years ago now, yet it only seems five minutes since my old gran saw him for the first time. "Looks more like his mother than he does you," she said. "So the boy's already dodged one bullet. Let's hope he inherits her brains too."

Luckily for him, he has.

I left school just a couple of weeks after my sixteenth birthday, so I don't have any great advice to offer him other than, "Don't fall asleep in class." 

He's a good lad. I'll miss him.


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Aug. 25th, 2011 09:09 am (UTC)
congratulations to your son!
Aug. 25th, 2011 09:15 am (UTC)
Good Lord, You're up early! And thanks :)
Aug. 25th, 2011 09:19 am (UTC)
i've got insomnia, i am up and down more than i'd like :/ and you're welcome, and congratulations to you and his mom too, for all the heavy lifting you've done to get your son to this point :)
Aug. 25th, 2011 09:34 am (UTC)
Lol, most of the heavy lifting was done last night, loading the car ;)
Aug. 25th, 2011 11:19 am (UTC)
that counts! :)
Aug. 25th, 2011 09:20 am (UTC)
You miss him already, don't you?
Aug. 25th, 2011 09:35 am (UTC)
I do. I woke up feeling quite sad this morning. We share a similar sense of humor. I'm going to miss the back-and-forth banter :(
Aug. 25th, 2011 11:06 am (UTC)
Congratulations and best wishes! Exciting times.
Aug. 25th, 2011 11:30 am (UTC)
They are that. Thanks, John :)
Aug. 25th, 2011 11:06 am (UTC)
It's weird being away from your kids - mine are both about 500 miles away -- but there is phone and e-mail. It's not the same but...
Aug. 25th, 2011 11:31 am (UTC)
He's only an hour away, so we can add laundry day to the list of contact options :)
Aug. 25th, 2011 11:20 am (UTC)
That's a big moment. The only one that comes close is walking away and leaving them at kindergarden on that first day.

Much good wishes to you all. To the future!
Aug. 25th, 2011 11:31 am (UTC)
Thank you :)
Aug. 25th, 2011 11:38 am (UTC)
A fine time for your son--heading into the new adventures of college and all. You and your wife can take consolation in knowing you've raised "a good lad" with smarts who didn't feel a need to attend college in California! . . . And who'll be coming home for laundry day. ;~}
Aug. 25th, 2011 01:42 pm (UTC)
Lol, he did his first ever bit of ironing the other day. I'm pleased to say he didn't burn the clothes, or himself, which is better than I usually manage :)
Aug. 25th, 2011 12:00 pm (UTC)
Congrats to you all!
Aug. 25th, 2011 12:21 pm (UTC)
All the best. A bit of a milestone, isn't it?

I must say that I like the sound of your gran! Is she the one you quoted earlier this week, in the ten writing tips thing?
Aug. 25th, 2011 01:46 pm (UTC)
'I must say that I like the sound of your gran!'

She was certainly one of a kind :)
Aug. 25th, 2011 01:42 pm (UTC)
Thanks, Peadar :)
Aug. 25th, 2011 12:25 pm (UTC)
Congratulations, Jon, and well done ♥ It is a bit sad, but they do come back, and they have great, great stories to share. You'll be enjoying the adventures, highs, and lows of this interesting, wonderful person who is your son, as he goes out into the world.
Aug. 25th, 2011 01:47 pm (UTC)
Just so long as he makes enough money so I can go live with him when I'm ninety, and exact my revenge ;)
Aug. 25th, 2011 12:37 pm (UTC)
Congratulations to you and your wife and best of luck to your son! I loved your grandmother's quote so much I shared it with my husband, who loved it too. Your gran sounds like she was quite a character.
Aug. 25th, 2011 01:47 pm (UTC)
Thank you :)
Aug. 25th, 2011 12:53 pm (UTC)
"Don't fall asleep in class."

Sage advice, that.
Aug. 25th, 2011 01:48 pm (UTC)
Sadly, like far too many of my personal life lessons, I learned that one in hindsight :)
Aug. 25th, 2011 02:15 pm (UTC)
It happens, more than you know! Not that I ever did, but I did end up daydreaming a lot, with the less informative and engaging professors. There's a trick to it, you see, that I finally worked out: study their personality quirks. If you make a game of it, it helps!
Aug. 25th, 2011 02:21 pm (UTC)
Congratulations to him and you!
Aug. 25th, 2011 05:41 pm (UTC)
Thanks, Mary :)
Aug. 25th, 2011 03:55 pm (UTC)
Well done, parents! It's a bittersweet moment, but congratulations!
Aug. 25th, 2011 05:46 pm (UTC)
Thank you :)
Aug. 25th, 2011 04:13 pm (UTC)
Congrats to him! I enjoyed my time at TCNJ. I'm sure he will too.
Aug. 25th, 2011 05:49 pm (UTC)
Thanks, Misha :)
Aug. 25th, 2011 04:13 pm (UTC)
Aww, it's a transition of mixed feelings, isn't it? On the one hand, we're happy to see them going forth successfully in life, experiencing new things, but then ... they're not here, under our care, where we can know all the little things. My oldest daughter just moved out (she stayed home for college), and Gary and I were just saying how a lot of parents have kids leave at 18! We're feeling sad about nearly 23! But the good thing is, when you do hear from them, it's such a delight :) Best wishes to him!
Aug. 25th, 2011 06:03 pm (UTC)
I hope your daughter moved into her new place okay.
Aug. 25th, 2011 05:00 pm (UTC)
Yay! Congrats to you & your wife, and best wishes to your son!
Aug. 25th, 2011 06:03 pm (UTC)
Thanks, Kammy :)
Aug. 25th, 2011 05:58 pm (UTC)
I realized there's nothing I can say
that won't sound like a Kodak ad,
so I'll just smile and sigh and leave it at that...


Aug. 25th, 2011 06:03 pm (UTC)
Lol :)
Aug. 25th, 2011 06:33 pm (UTC)
How exciting! The first year is an adjustment. There are ups and downs. Just listen and support. The second year goes WAY better. And if needed...provide coffee and NoDoze. Some profs can be REALLY boring! Think Ferris Bueller.
Aug. 25th, 2011 08:26 pm (UTC)
Thanks for the suggestions :)
Aug. 26th, 2011 12:17 am (UTC)
A big day, sending that first one off to college. Wow. I remember that feeling. Now it's old hat! But...yeah, I know how you feel.
Aug. 26th, 2011 09:30 am (UTC)
What with facebook, cell phones and the like, it's probably much less traumatic than it was even a few short years ago.
Aug. 26th, 2011 02:38 am (UTC)
Wow, congrats. That's tough, too - I'm already partially dreading that day & my munchkin's just starting 1st grade!
Aug. 26th, 2011 09:30 am (UTC)
Thanks, Kat :)
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Aug. 26th, 2011 02:14 pm (UTC)
Thanks, Irene. It's only been a day, but we already miss him like crazy.
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